psycho, sharing, 31/32/33, The Mystery of Imaginary Ugliness, PSYCHO-CYBERNETICS,

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Saturday, May 2, 2015

sharing, 31/32/33, The Mystery of Imaginary Ugliness – PSYCHO-CYBERNETICS

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The Mystery of Imaginary Ugliness

…To a person handicapped by a genuine congenital defect, or suffering from an actual facial disfigurement as a
result of an accident, plastic surgery can indeed seemingly
perform magic. 
From such cases it would be easy to theorize that the cure-all for all neuroses, unhappiness,
failure, fear, anxiety and lack of self-confidence would be
wholesale plastic surgery to remove all bodily defects.


However, according to this theory, persons with normal or acceptable faces should be singularly free from all
psychological handicaps. 

They should be cheerful, happy,
self-confident, free from anxiety and worry. 

We know only too well this is not true.

Nor can such a theory explain the people who visit the office of a plastic surgeon and demand a “face lift” to
cure a purely imaginary ugliness. 

There are the 35- or 45-
year-old women who are convinced that they look “old” even though their appearance is perfectly “normal” and in
many cases unusually attractive.


There are the young girls who are convinced that they are “ugly” merely because their mouth, nose or bust
measurement does not exactly match that of the currently reigning movie queen. 

There are men who believe that their ears are too big or their noses too long. 

No ethical plastic surgeon would even consider operating upon these people, but unfortunately the quacks, or so-called
“beauty doctors” whom no medical association will admit to membership, have no such qualms.


Such “imaginary ugliness” is not at all uncommon. 

A recent survey of college co-eds showed that 90 per cent
were dissatisfied in some way with their appearance. 

If the words “normal” or “average” mean anything at all, it
is obvious that 90 per cent of our population cannot be
“abnormal” or “different” or “defective” in appearance.


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Yet, similar surveys have shown that approximately the
same percentage of our general population find some reason to be ashamed of their body-image.


These people react just as if they suffered an actual disfigurement.


They feel the same shame. 

They develop the
same fears and anxieties. 

Their capacity to really “live” fully is blocked and choked by the same sort of psychologic
roadblocks.

 Their “scars,” though mental and emotional
rather than physical, are just as debilitating.


The Self-image—the Real Secret
Discovery of the self-image explains all the apparent
discrepancies we have been discussing. 

It is the common
denominator—the determining factor in all our case histories,
the failures as well as the successes.


The secret is this:

 To really “live,” that is to find life
reasonably satisfying, you must have an adequate and
realistic self image that you can live with. 

You must find
your self acceptable to “you.” 

You must have a wholesome
self-esteem. 

You must have a self that you can trust
and believe in. 

You must have a self that you are not
ashamed to “be,” and one that you can feel free to express
creatively, rather than to hide or cover up. 

You must
have a self that corresponds to reality so that you can
function effectively in a real world. 

You must know yourself—
both your strengths and your weaknesses and be
honest with yourself concerning both. 

Your self-image
must be a reasonable approximation of “you,” being neither more than you are, nor less than you are.


When this self-image is intact and secure, you feel “good.” 

When it is threatened, you feel anxious and insecure.

When it is adequate and one that you can be
wholesomely proud of, you feel self-confident. You feel free to “be yourself” and to express yourself. 

You function
at your optimum. 

When it is an object of shame, you attempt to hide it rather than express it. 
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Creative expression
 is blocked. 

You become hostile and hard to get along
with.


If a scar on the face enhances the self-image (as in the
case of the German duelist), self-esteem and self-confidence
are increased. 

If a scar on the face detracts from the
self-image (as in the case of the salesman), loss of selfesteem
and self-confidence results.


When a facial disfigurement is corrected by plastic surgery, dramatic psychologic changes result only if there is
a corresponding correction of the mutilated self-image.


Sometimes the image of a disfigured self persists even after successful surgery, much the same as the “phantom limb”
may continue to feel pain years after the physical arm or leg has been amputated.


I Begin a New Career
These observations led me into a new career. 

Some 15 years ago I became convinced that the people who consult
a plastic surgeon need more than surgery and that some of them do not need surgery at all. 

If I were to treat
these people as patients, as a whole person rather than as merely a nose, ear, mouth, arm or leg, I needed to be in a
position to give them something more. 

I needed to be able
to show them how to obtain a spiritual face lift, how to remove emotional scars, how to change their attitudes and thoughts as well as their physical appearance.


This study has been most rewarding. 

Today, I am more
convinced than ever that what each of us really wants, deep down, is more LIFE. 

Happiness, success, peace of mind, or whatever your own conception of supreme good may be, is experienced in its essence as-more life. 

When we experience expansive emotions of happiness, self-confidence, and success, we enjoy more life. 

And to the degree
that we inhibit our abilities, frustrate our God-given talents,
and allow ourselves to suffer anxiety, fear, self-condemnation
and self-hate, we literally choke off the life
force available to us and turn our back upon the gift
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which our Creator has made. 

To the degree that we deny the gift of life, we embrace death.

YOUR PROGRAM FOR BETTER LIVING…

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psycho: sharing2, El SER UNO, CARTA ABIERTA, A EL SER UNO, LAS 4 ESTACIONES, DEL ALMA,

Origen: psycho: sharing2, El SER UNO, CARTA ABIERTA, A EL SER UNO, LAS 4 ESTACIONES, DEL ALMA,

Thursday, August 30, 2018

sharing2, El SER UNO, CARTA ABIERTA, A EL SER UNO, LAS 4 ESTACIONES, DEL ALMA,

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El SER UNO


June 4 at 8:10am ·

LAS 4 ESTACIONES DEL ALMA…

 “Cuando decimos que las Energías-Pensamientos del alma, son como las 4 ESTACIONES en su movimiento energético de traslación y Rotación – dijo la hermana Interana – lo hacemos comparativamente para palpar el misterio del “Tiempo”. 

En esas Energías-Pensamientos, se puede ver la transformación del alma en su renacimiento, siempre va acompañada con el desarrollo interior de su esencia, mostrando la Luz de su trabajo, acompañadas emocionalmente por el calor (elemento fuego) por el frío (elemento tierra), el viento (elemento aire) 
o por la lluvia (elemento agua). 

Así, como la naturaleza, el alma se transforma, avanzando o degradando sus estaciones, revelándose en sus encarnaciones y manifestándose en sus frutos, aroma, dulzura, color, ritmo y vibración… Las estaciones del alma son expresadas por sus Energías-Pensamientos, los cuales deben girar en forma correcta, rítmica y de vibración estable. 

LAS 4 ESTACIONES REPRESENTAN:

EL VERANO… es representado por el CALOR VIVO Y POSITIVO DE LAS EMOCIONES. La LUZ que el alma necesita para ver y mirar en todo su esplendor.

EL OTOÑO… La callada fase del alma, cuando va cerrando y oscureciendo con melancolía el atardecer del conocimiento y entendimiento. 

El silencio de la noche y el profundo suspiro del frío inexplicable de la oscuridad.

EL INVIERNO… la batalla del guerrero que lucha en la tristeza del campo árido de su alma, sin flores, sin colores ni alegría. 

El refugio del tiempo sombrío e inhóspito.

LA PRIMAVERA… El maravilloso DESPERTAR DEL SUEÑO Y DEL ENSUEÑO es el orden, conocimiento y entendimiento del alma, cuando divisa de lejos la sensación de abrir los ojos y ver la LUMINOSIDAD de su belleza.



El SER UNO


June 4 at 11:03am ·


CARTA ABIERTA A EL SER UNO… 

Hola El Ser Uno, ayer erupcionó el volcán de fuego en mi país, Guatemala. 

Me di cuenta que el electromagnetismo el sábado en la noche era fuerte, y anormal habia una tormenta eléctrica y lluvia muy fuerte, no me pareció normal. 

Hay muertos y mucho desastre. ¿Qué podemos hacer para elevar más la energía y evitar darle mas fuerza a esta tragedia natural? ¿Algo en especial que podamos hacer para elevar la vibración y enviar luz al volcán?… Claudia.

RESPUESTA… Estimada Claudia, ante todo sí, mandemos mucha LUZ a Guatemala y envolvamos al país y al volcán en 7 aros de Luz, blanca brillante, para que se calme y no produzca más desgracias. Por otro lado debemos entender que son eventos naturales porque la célula-Tierra se está acomodando, creciendo y transmutando la energía-negativa de su centro hacia el exterior.

 Esto lo podemos comparar como la transmutación de una emoción-negativa que sale del plexo solar hacia afuera para ser depurada y comprendida, si realmente pudiéramos mirarlo con nuestros ojos físicos, veríamos un furúnculo lleno de materia reventando su negatividad y saliendo en forma de fuego.

Así como nosotros estamos depurando la energía-negativa, sacándola de las emociones-negativas-enfermas, así también la célula-Tierra lo hace. 

Desgraciadamente cuando sucede, siempre se lleva consigo otras energías-positivas, las cuales se ven expuestas a estos fenómenos.

 Pero sabemos que las almas no se pierden, y, si desencarnaron en forma trágica, encarnarán inmediatamente para seguir su proceso de vida, pidamos mucho por ellas, mandemos LUZ y AMOR a sus familias, para que sus almas tengan armonía y paz y encuentren el Camino de Regreso…

Las Células-Planetas, tienen sus propias leyes de EVOLUCIÓN y ELEVACIÓN, muchas veces no lo entendemos y lo vemos como terribles tragedias de sufrimiento y padecimiento, pero si entramos al Conocimiento Cósmico, tendremos las respuestas a muchas disyuntivas que no logramos comprender. 

El miedo y terror surgen, cuando “Vemos” a través de una visión plana de volumen y no “Miramos” a través de una visión de Altura y Circunferencia…

 LUZ y AMOR.

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